People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us … More Pain

I knew I loved him

We sat there by the edge of the court, our shoulders touching. It felt good. We took some water to cool ourselves in the mild mid-morning Saturday heat. The autumn sun was peeping through the clouds and smiling at us, like it was waiting for us to finish our thing the go full blast. We … More I knew I loved him

5 Tips For A Succesful Gay Relationship

Gay relationships just like any other relationships require effort and energy to make them work. I have over the years learned a few things that can help keep a relationship and make it enjoyable. These I have learned from personal experience and from observing  friends who are in committed relationships. 1. Communicate The importance of … More 5 Tips For A Succesful Gay Relationship

After the Storm

In the midnight darkness, the rain pounded the window hard. The winds were harsh and strong. Thunder and lightning struck hard, setting off car alarms on the street below. He lay on the bed facing up and spread across like a dead man. Staring at the ceiling. He had been crying. The tear drops that … More After the Storm

Forgive and Forget

Forgive and forget. So they tell you and as the adage goes. “Oh yeah?” You mutter to yourself. “It is easier said than done” you tell them. You know better, from experience, that lying to the people you love is a terrible thing that could hurt and get both of you into trouble. They probably … More Forgive and Forget