In a matter of minutes or hours the year will be over. A new chapter begins when the clock strikes 12 midnight, a year begins. I write this as I lay in bed, clueless as to how I will have my crossover. Dinner with friends or family, or night out dancing….I don’t know. Anyway, if … More Adios 2014
They say no expectations; no disappointments, and that happiness is expensive. We are bound to be disappointed when we expect a lot from people. Disappointment comes easily to those who expect too much. This is no rocket science yet we find ourselves going through this cycle all the time. I wonder what makes us do … More Expectations and Happiness
To my beloved 1,2,3,4….30,32.33…56,57,58….223,224,225….363,364,365 days. So many days, yet so recent. Vivid in my memories, on this day, one year ago, I said ‘I love you’. One year later and looking back, from the first day I met you on our first date, I wonder why I waited for six months to tell you how … More Love letter to the man of my dreams
It’s been a few weeks since I have posted here. I am usually busy or going through something whenever I disappear for a while. Of late I have been in a dilemma in making certain personal decisions and whenever that happens, I lose focus of non-core or auxiliary tasks like blogging. Anyway, I have gone … More Relationships
I haven’t written here in a month! I must admit I have been suffering from writers block of late. When I started this blog, the idea was to share little snippets of my life, anonymously of course, which I might turn into a little memoir, again an anonymous one. The biggest challenge of writing anonymously … More Curve balls
What are your biggest fears? We all have some form of fears. Heights, flying, water mass, snakes, spiders…etc. At least I don’t have much of these except for snakes. Snakes and I will never bond, not now, nor in the near future and not even when I am dead :). Anyway, the other day I … More My biggest fear(s)
Everyone has a love story. From our parents, to our friends, to the teenage boys and girls in school. I do have my love stories but that is a story for another day. This post has been inspired by the love stories that I am now witnessing thanks to greater freedom and acceptance in the … More My Kenyan gay love story
The other day, I was having drinks with two friends, Stan and Jay and as usual, we talked about lots of things. The range of topics varied from politics, careers, relationships to sexuality. Jay is queer and in a committed relationship. As for Stan, I will not even go there. He is not so sure about … More To talk about it or not
Call me naive. I didn’t start exploring my sexuality until I was a bit older. By older I mean after I turned 18. You must be wondering where I was all my teenage life. Its interesting how young people these days have done it all by the time they are 16. You will note that … More Wanderings of meeting people
Peter and I met on our first day in high school. We were both innocent and came from different places, I coming from near the capital and him from Western Kenya. The choice of our first meeting venue was not of my own making but incidentally, it was in the boys changing rooms, as we … More A trip down memory lane; part II (Story of Peter)
That Queer Lawyer 