It has been a year and a half since my boyfriend and I broke up! Yes, a year and a half! Time flies. That explains the eerie silence on this blog. I have being meaning to pen down a piece but I have not had the energy to write for over eighteen months! That, is … More Broken Pieces
People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us … More Pain
Gay relationships just like any other relationships require effort and energy to make them work. I have over the years learned a few things that can help keep a relationship and make it enjoyable. These I have learned from personal experience and from observing friends who are in committed relationships. 1. Communicate The importance of … More 5 Tips For A Succesful Gay Relationship
You are fading away, And I don’t know why, You cannot go away, Ahead lays a long way, I cannot lose you again. I planted a bad seed, My mind I cannot feed It has to go like a weed Lest to death I bleed I cannot lose you again. You were hard to find, … More I cannot lose you again
Everyone has a love story. From our parents, to our friends, to the teenage boys and girls in school. I do have my love stories but that is a story for another day. This post has been inspired by the love stories that I am now witnessing thanks to greater freedom and acceptance in the … More My Kenyan gay love story
The other day, I was having drinks with two friends, Stan and Jay and as usual, we talked about lots of things. The range of topics varied from politics, careers, relationships to sexuality. Jay is queer and in a committed relationship. As for Stan, I will not even go there. He is not so sure about … More To talk about it or not
Call me naive. I didn’t start exploring my sexuality until I was a bit older. By older I mean after I turned 18. You must be wondering where I was all my teenage life. Its interesting how young people these days have done it all by the time they are 16. You will note that … More Wanderings of meeting people
